One of the hardest things for a guy is how to approach girls. It’s not easy at all. Before you approach a girl, it’s a good idea to get some confidence built up to overcome the anxiety of approaching a girl. You have to figure out where and what you are going to say to her.
Let’s slowly breakdown this problem one bit at a time.
Approaching girls and mustering the courage for it.
I can’t lie. Most guys have difficulty talking to girls. If you find it easy when it comes to talking with girls, then you are lucky. The biggest hurdle is talking with a girl, and it even holds guys back from getting further with a girl.
You have to ask yourself why you don’t feel confident talking to a girl. Could it be your looks that are holding you back? Do you think your conversation is lacking? Figure out the problem and work on improving it.
If you start working out and dressing better, then you won’t feel like you attractiveness is holding you back anymore, giving you the confidence you need. If you are not good at talking or sparking a conversation, create some small talk with strangers.
Where to find the girls and approach them.
A lot of guys really don’t know where girls are for an ideal conversation. I don’t see how hard it is when talking with women, seeing that 50% of the earth is populated with them. Everywhere you look, you can find a woman. They do things and go places that most men do every single day too.
Find a good place that makes you comfortable when approaching girls. Afterwards, you will be able to meet a girl any place. If it’s at a favorite restaurant or a book store, approaching a girl will be easier because you’ll have something in common.
Sharing something in common, like a hobby or pastime, will make approaching a girl that much easier. Questions like, how long have you been coming to this group, will be easier to say.
Succeeding in approaching girls.
Are you ready? You see here standing over there. What do you think you should do?
You need to have something to say. Search for a reason to start a conversation with her. Perhaps she wearing something nice, or doing something interesting that will create the conversation starter you need.
If you can’t find a good reason to talk to her, you’re probably no thinking hard enough. If you have nothing to talk to her about try to memorize a few canned PUA routines to keep as a backup plan.
If your confidence level is high and you know exactly what you want to tell the girl, then there is no reason not to approach to girl. Start talking to her and see if this is someone you would want to get to know better. If you two hit it off, get the girl’s phone number and ask her out later.
That’s what you need to do to approach girls. It isn’t that hard after you get a few approaches under your belt. Jump on the opportunity. Meeting new people (especially attractive women) can be one of the most exciting things out there. That stranger could suddenly be your girlfriend down the road.
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